Can I Get A Dance…Please?
By Imasteppa

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

            Every year, there have been numerous major steppers sets all over the country. People make hotel reservations, pay for airline tickets, rent cars, etc. Bottom line…people spend money! It’s no secret that out of town steppers love to travel to be with other steppers. Most notably they love Chicago steppers. They love the ambience, they love to watch them and they love to dance with them. However, for all the people that like to travel, I received quite a bit of feedback from individuals who were not going to out of town sets for one specific reason. I call myself writing this commentary in an effort to get the wheels of thought to spinning.

Here’s the number one reason that out of town steppers have given me over the years as to why they don’t attend out of town sets.  “Every time I go out of town and Chicago heavy hitters are there…they only want to dance with each other the whole time. I’m not paying that amount of money to just sit around and watch them perform with each other when they can dance with each other in Chicago.”

I tried to explain away that assertion by interjecting this thought. People are always most comfortable with people they know or people that are in their peer group when it comes to steppin. Personally, I am going to make a concerted effort to dance with men from all over, but as a city, I think we should always try to take care of “home” first. Why should we expect Chicago steppers to be any different?

My comment was promptly met with this response from several individuals, “Tracey, you are not a traveling instructor that makes your workshop money off of people like me. There is a certain expectation I have that I will get to dance with one of the women or men from Chicago because I ask them to. I’m not trying to watch them dance with each other all night long showing off! Out of towners need the floor time with them. They act like they never get to dance with each other at home!”

Valid argument or invalid whining? Are we suggesting that Chicago heavy hitters become dance puppets for the out of towners who spend their money to bring them there in the first place? Is this the price of doing business with the invited workshop instructors?

 What do you think?


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Name: Leslie
E-mail: Private
Date posted: June 28, 2010 - 08:54 am
Message: I'm from Chicago But now live in Wisconsin. For years i'v noticed that the Chicago Steppers take the dance way too serious and if you can't step as well as them they don't want to dance with you. I think it is a show for some.


Name: Cynthia Robinson
E-mail: robinsoncynt@yahoo.com
Date posted: June 19, 2010 - 03:53 pm
Message: Many people have traditional values when it comes to dance. The man asks the women, and the instructor asks the student. I have heard countless times from women that they will not approach men for a dance. The promoter has to be willing to address the concerns of the attendees. I have seen this with the Detroit community by means of escorts who work in shifts.
It is also important that instructors dance with their students and encourage their male students to dance with fellow students first, followed by everyone else.
Watching 'heavy hitters' on the floor is a part of the culture; many people enjoy this entertainment. However, if these heavy hitters are also enjoying the benefit from workshops in conjunction with the event, they should seek out their workshop students. Over time, they will not only have the notability of being a good stepper, but also the respect.


Name: MsKitty
E-mail: msclay78@yahoo.com
Date posted: June 16, 2010 - 07:23 pm
Message: Hey I live in Chicago and frequent clubs alone just to Step. Why wait for someone to ask you-- Man up!! Ask for what u want. I've watched so many people sitting alnight waiting for someone to ask them to dance,all the while I'm up there hogging the floor cause I'm not gonna wait to be apporached. All they can say is no,if thats the case- I then move on to the next one. You can alays find a willing partner. Or dont be afraid to just start dancing I've done that and 8 times out of 10 a partner comes along.
STEPPING IS MY LIFE!!!!! MEOW!!!!!!
I always have a great time!!!!


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